InnerSelf Newsletter: October 7th, 2018

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The times they are a'changin... was a song written by Bob Dylan in 1963. Dylan recalled writing the song as a deliberate attempt to create an anthem of change for the moment. And what was that moment? As he said in an interview, "The civil rights movement and the folk music movement were pretty close for a while and allied together at that time."

And since life goes in cycles, here we are 55 years later... and, yes the times they are still a-changin... However, now, many of us are realizing that we must change ourselves first in order to make a difference in the outside world. The dishonesty we see in the world must be eradicated from within. We must address the many ways we hide the truth of who we are, or who we think we are, from ourselves and from others. The greed we see is a reflection of our fear of poverty and loss, and our fear of not "being enough" as well as not "having enough". The lack of empathy also needs to be addressed within ourselves, as we realize that we also lack empathy with ourselves and with those we disagree with.

Benjamin Franklin wrote, in 1789 in a letter to Jean-Baptiste Leroy, "...in this world nothing can be said to be certain, except death and taxes". However, I would disagree and say that the only thing we can be certain of is change. Nothing remains the same, ever. Everything changes... so yes, the times they are a-changin... and we can all participate in making the change be the one we wish to see in the world, by first developing the caring, love, empathy, equality, fairness, respect, in our own hearts for ourselves and for those around us, and then help spread that throughout the world.

This week, we start by setting an astrological eye on "Relationships and Revelation: Reflection and Realignment" and we are reminded that when one door closes, another opens, in "The Best Rejection: A New Path, A New Direction, and The Real You". There are times that we may not know how to interpret what is going on in our life, and that's when we can get guidance via "The Psychology of Dreams: Dreams Come Knocking At The Door Of Consciousness".

There are many ways to connect with our true self and with the true self of others. One is through "The Joy of Service". Another tool is "Reflexology for Emotional, Physical, and Spiritual Well-Being for Adults as well as Children". And even martial arts presents is with a way of "Going From Conflict to Resolution by Using Aikido Principles to Resolve Conflict".


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And through it all, we are reminded that we are the ones who are "a'changin", and as we change so does the world around us. And, that is important to be aware of in the realm of the democratic process, and we are reminded of this in "The Un-united States Of America and A Way Forward", written by InnerSelf co-publisher, Robert Jennings.

May we all be inspired to "be the change we want to see in the world" (quote attributed to Gandhi so many years ago). However, here is what Gandhi actually said:

"“We but mirror the world. All the tendencies present in the outer world are to be found in the world of our body. If we could change ourselves, the tendencies in the world would also change. As a man changes his own nature, so does the attitude of the world change towards him. This is the divine mystery supreme. A wonderful thing it is and the source of our happiness. We need not wait to see what others do.” – Mahatma Gandhi"

And of course, to support us all in this process, we have numerous additional articles to assist in this journey of change and transformation.

Wishing you enjoyable insightful reading, and of course a wonder-full, joy-full, and loving week.

Marie T. Russell
editor/publisher,
InnerSelf.com
"New Attitudes...New Possibilities"


NEW ARTICLES THIS WEEK


Relationships and Revelation: Reflection and Realignment in October 2018

Written by Sarah Varcas

Relationships and Revelation: Reflection and Realignment in October 2018

October 2018 may bring sweeping change that cultivates a more innovative and courageous attitude at a personal, local and global level. Or we may end up reacting to life’s challenges blind to their deeper significance, unwittingly retreating to intellectualised theories about the ‘right’ thing to do without embodying those beliefs in a ‘real-world’ way.

Article continues here: Relationships and Revelation: Reflection and Realignment in October 2018


The Best Rejection: A New Path, A New Direction, and The Real You

Written by Alan Cohen

The Best Rejection: A New Path, A New Direction, and The Real You

When composer George Gershwin was developing his career, he contacted his esteemed role model Maurice Ravel and asked if Ravel would take him on as a student. Ravel, familiar with Gershwin’s work, rejected him, replying, “Why become a second-rate Ravel when you are already a first-rate Gershwin?”

Article continues here: The Best Rejection: A New Path, A New Direction, and The Real You


The Psychology of Dreams: Dreams Come Knocking At The Door Of Consciousness

Written by Doris E. Cohen, PhD

The Psychology of Dreams: Dreams Come Knocking At The Door Of Consciousness

When you pay close attention to both your conscious life and your unconscious, your unconscious doesn’t need to knock on the door seven times to get your attention. The artist Salvador Dali once commented that he used to have dreams, but stopped at some point—perhaps because he had shared the mes­sages of his unconscious through his expressive art.

Article continues here: The Psychology of Dreams: Dreams Come Knocking At The Door Of Consciousness


The Joy of Service: A Fulfilled Life Is All About Service

Written by Joyce Vissell

The Joy of Service: A Fulfilled Life Is All About Service

I slept and dreamt that life was joy. I awoke and saw that life was service. I acted and behold, service was joy.”--Rabindranath Tagore. Babaji encouraged people to serve others on a daily, even hourly basis. He also taught that no act of service is beneath a person. Just because a person has an advanced degree or a very important job, they can still do the smallest act of service like digging ditches, washing dishes, scrubbing floors.

Article continues here: The Joy of Service: A Fulfilled Life Is All About Service


Reflexology for Emotional, Physical, and Spiritual Well-Being for Adults as well as Children

Written by Sonia Jones

The Benefits of Reflexology on Emotional, Physical, and Spiritual Well-Being for Adults as well as Children

It may surprise you to discover how far reaching the benefits of reflexology can be. Not only is it a truly holistic treatment, but it is also an extremely pleasant experience. People get hooked on the good experience of the treatment and the health benefits that they gain from it.

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Going From Conflict to Resolution: Using Aikido Principles to Resolve Conflict

Written by Michael J. Gelb

Going From Conflict to Resolution: Connecting to Invent Options for Mutual Gain

Roger Fisher (1922–2012) served as a reconnaissance pilot in World War II and then graduated from Harvard Law School, becoming a professor there in 1958. Witnessing maiming and death firsthand during the war and then seeing the destructive effects of costly, pro­tracted litigation as a partner in a major law firm, Fisher was pas­sionate about finding more creative alternatives to resolve conflict.

Article continues here: Going From Conflict to Resolution: Using Aikido Principles to Resolve Conflict


The Un-united States Of America and A Way Forward

Written by R Jennings

The Un-united States Of America and A Way Forward

For better or worse the radical remnants of the Republican party have now captured the American government completely. Whether they can hold it more than a month is all that is left to be seen.

Article continues here: The Un-united States Of America and A Way Forward


Delay In Replacing The Pap Smear With HPV Screening Is Costing Lives

Delay In Replacing The Pap Smear With HPV Screening Is Costing Lives

by Alejandra Castanon

It was established a decade ago that testing for the presence of HPV – the virus that causes cervical cancer – is a…

Article continues here: Delay In Replacing The Pap Smear With HPV Screening Is Costing Lives


How The Power Of A Hug Can Help You Cope With Conflict

How The Power Of A Hug Can Help You Cope With Conflict

by Lisa A Williams

Friends, children, romantic partners, family members – many of us exchange hugs with others on a regular basis. New…

Article continues here: How The Power Of A Hug Can Help You Cope With Conflict


How Shareholder Profits Conquered Capitalism  And How Workers Can Win It Back

How Shareholder Profits Conquered Capitalism And How Workers Can Win It Back

by Louis Brennan

In the early days of industrial capitalism there were no protections for workers, and industrialists took their profits…

Article continues here: How Shareholder Profits Conquered Capitalism And How Workers Can Win It Back


Why Optimism And Entrepreneurship Are Not Always A Good Mix

Why Optimism And Entrepreneurship Are Not Always A Good Mix

by Chris Dawson and David de Meza

Failure has always been the hallmark of entrepreneurship – only around 50% of businesses survive their first five…

Article continues here: Why Optimism And Entrepreneurship Are Not Always A Good Mix


Why Open Up Psychedelic Science For Mental Health

Why Open Up Psychedelic Science For Mental Health

by Thomas Anderson and Rotem Petranker

Attempts to replicate classical scientific studies have been failing. These alarming failures have hit psychology, the…

Article continues here: Why Open Up Psychedelic Science For Mental Health


How To Make Friends Online

How To Make Friends Online

by Jade Boyd

Your chances of forming online friendships depend mainly on the number of groups and organizations you join, not their…

Article continues here: How To Make Friends Online


Warrior Women: The Ancient World Was Full Of Female Fighters

Warrior Women: The Ancient World Was Full Of Female Fighters

by Eve MacDonald

One of the great things about computer games is that anything is possible in the almost endless array of situations on…

Article continues here: Warrior Women: The Ancient World Was Full Of Female Fighters


Why Alcoholics Can’t Be Forced to Stop Drinking

Why Alcoholics Can’t Be Forced to Stop Drinking

by Bruce E. Levine

Alcoholics Anonymous was established as a form of benign anarchy. Members have to want to help themselves—and one…

Article continues here: Why Alcoholics Can’t Be Forced to Stop Drinking


When Women Draw Spirals And Circles, Snakes And Ladders

When Women Draw Spirals And Circles, Snakes And Ladders

by Kathleen Riach

This week’s International Day of Older Persons reminds us Australia has made an international commitment to work…

Article continues here: When Women Draw Spirals And Circles, Snakes And Ladders


Hamsters May Hold The Clue To Beating Obesity

Hamsters May Hold The Clue To Beating Obesity

by Gisela Helfer and Rebecca Dumbell

The global obesity crisis shows no signs of abating, and we urgently need new ways to tackle it. Consuming fewer…

Article continues here: Hamsters May Hold The Clue To Beating Obesity


The Elimination Of Smallpox Showed How Humans Can Work Together

The Elimination Of Smallpox Showed How Humans Can Work Together

by Steven M Opal and J.M. Opal

If you were to watch a split-screen broadcast with global weather on one side and world politics on the other, you…

Article continues here: The Elimination Of Smallpox Showed How Humans Can Work Together


The Best Foods To Eat For A Good Night's Sleep

The Best Foods To Eat For A Good Night's Sleep

by Sophie Medlin

Sleep has become widely recognised as playing a really important role in our overall health and wellness – alongside…

Article continues here: The Best Foods To Eat For A Good Night's Sleep


Does The Media Encourage and Sustain Political Warfare?

Does The Media Encourage and Sustain Political Warfare? And How We Participate As Well

by Kyle Jensen and Jack Selzer

Since his inauguration, President Donald Trump has been waging war against the American press by dismissing unfavorable…

Article continues here: Does The Media Encourage and Sustain Political Warfare? And How We Participate As Well


Research Finds That 40% Of People Over 50 Drink Too Much

Research Finds That 40% Of People Over 50 Drink Too Much

by Andy Towers

Mention hazardous drinking and most of us imagine teenagers or students getting drunk, causing havoc and filling our…

Article is continued here: Research Finds That 40% Of People Over 50 Drink Too Much


Facebook Hack Reveals The Perils Of Using A Single Account To Log In To Other Services

Facebook Hack Reveals The Perils Of Using A Single Account To Log In To Other Services

by Mike Johnstone

There are several flow-on effects from the recent Facebook hack. Any accounts on other platforms that use Facebook…

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Science Says Happiness Can Change Your Brain

Science Says Happiness Can Change Your Brain

by Matthieu Ricard

The paths we take in search of happiness often lead us to frustration and suffering instead. We try to create outer…

Article is continued here: Science Says Happiness Can Change Your Brain


Sex-Ed Is Crucial To The Rights Of Today's Youth

Sex-Ed Is Crucial To The Rights Of Today's Youth

by Valerie Michaelson, et al

Young people need a brand of sex education that is responsive to current realities, behaviours and pressures so they…

Article is continued here: Sex-Ed Is Crucial To The Rights Of Today's Youth


Global Warming Varies Greatly Depending Where You Live

Global Warming Varies Greatly Depending Where You Live

by Zeke Hausfather

As part of the Paris Agreement on climate change, the international community committed in 2015 to limit rising global…

Article is continued here: Global Warming Varies Greatly Depending Where You Live


Why The Promise Of Personalized Medicine Is Not For Everyone

Why The Promise Of Personalized Medicine Is Not For Everyone

by Daniel R. Weinberger

Could your medical treatment one day be tailored to your DNA? That’s the promise of “personalized medicine”. This…

Article is continued here: Why The Promise Of Personalized Medicine Is Not For Everyone


Should Seeing Food Wasted Make Us Mad?

Should Seeing Food Wasted Make Us Mad?

by Martin Cohen,

There is currently a grand consensus of academics, policymakers and food campaign groups that “something must be done”…

Article is continued here: Should Seeing Food Wasted Make Us Mad?


How Should We Judge People For Their Past Moral Failings?

How Should We Judge People For Their Past Moral Failings?

by Andrew Khoury

The recent allegations of sexual assault against Supreme Court nominee Brett Kavanaugh have further divided the nation.…

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Breathlessness Is The Hidden Health Problem Leaving Millions Struggling

Breathlessness Is The Hidden Health Problem Leaving Millions Struggling

by Ann Hutchinson

This quote from an anonymous patient sums up the experience of millions of sufferers of a health problem that’s rarely…

Article is continued here: Breathlessness Is The Hidden Health Problem Leaving Millions Struggling


5 Things You Didn't Know About Psychopaths10 04 5 things you didnt know about psychopaths

5 Things You Didn't Know About Psychopaths

by Nadja Heym

Most people think they know what a psychopath is: someone who has no feelings. Someone who probably tortured animals…

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Why Physical Education Is Just As Important As Any Other School Subject

Why Physical Education Is Just As Important As Any Other School Subject

by Andrew Sprake and Clive Palmer

Physical Education (PE) is often viewed as a marginal subject within the curriculum. And many secondary schools…

Article is continued here: Why Physical Education Is Just As Important As Any Other School Subject


Honeygate Deepens As New Tests Reveal 27% Of Brands Are Adulterated

Honeygate Deepens As New Tests Reveal 27% Of Brands Are Adulterated

by Mark Patrick Taylor and Xiaoteng Zhou

More than a quarter of commercial honey brands have potentially been watered down with sugar cane, corn syrup or other…

Article is continued here: Honeygate Deepens As New Tests Reveal 27% Of Brands Are Adulterated


How Facebook Friends Hurt Our Feelings And Our Thinking

How Facebook Friends Hurt Our Feelings And Our Thinking

by Bert Gambini

Social media sites can make us feel left out—and can actually inhibit intelligent thought, research shows. A new study…

Article is continued here: How Facebook Friends Hurt Our Feelings And Our Thinking


Arctic Warming May Drive Long Heat Waves Or Cold Spells

Arctic Warming May Drive Long Heat Waves Or Cold Spells

by Todd Bates

Persistent weather conditions, including dry and wet spells, that have increased in the United States may be a result…

Article is continued here: Arctic Warming May Drive Long Heat Waves Or Cold Spells


The Movie 2001 A Space Odyssey Still Offers Insight About The Future

The Movie 2001 A Space Odyssey Still Offers Insight About The Future

by Daniel N. Rockmore

Watching a 50th anniversary screening of “2001: A Space Odyssey,” I found myself, a mathematician and computer…

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Ruth Bader Ginsburg Helped Shape The Modern Era Of Women's Rights

Ruth Bader Ginsburg Helped Shape The Modern Era Of Women's Rights

by Jonathan Entin

As the debate about the treatment of women rages across the United States, one Supreme Court nominee arrived at her…

Article is continued here: Ruth Bader Ginsburg Helped Shape The Modern Era Of Women's Rights


Kids With Cellphones More Likely To Be Bullies – Or Get Bullied. Here Are 6 Tips For Parents

Kids With Cellphones More Likely To Be Bullies – Or Get Bullied. Here Are 6 Tips For Parents

by Elizabeth Englander

Each year, more parents send their young child to elementary school equipped with a smartphone. For instance, the…

Article is continued here: Kids With Cellphones More Likely To Be Bullies – Or Get Bullied. Here Are 6 Tips For Parents


How Female Politicians Bolster Trust In Government Decisions

How Female Politicians Bolster Trust In Government Decisions

by Liz Entman

New research shows that the presence of women in a decision-making body increases the public’s perception of that…

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Why Did The Pope Phone The Philosopher?

Why Did The Pope Phone The Renowned Gay, Communist Philosopher?

by Santiago Zabala

This summer, during the FIFA World Cup, I went with some friends to watch a soccer game at the house in Turin of the…

Article is continued here: Why Did The Pope Phone The Renowned Gay, Communist Philosopher?


Can Technology Change Behavior And Help People Better Manage Chronic Diseases?

Can Technology Change Behavior And Help People Better Manage Chronic Diseases?

by Samir Chatterjee

It was March 2014 when I received a phone call as I was working in my office. The person on the other end introduced…

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Missing Emissions Aren't Counted As Pollution But Could Help Kill You

Missing Emissions Aren't Counted As Pollution But Could Help Kill You

by Peter Barlow

Exposure to air pollution has a staggering effect on human health. It is thought to cause around 7m premature deaths…

Article is continued here: Missing Emissions Aren't Counted As Pollution But Could Help Kill You


Give-Up-Itis: When People Just Give Up And Die

Give-Up-Itis: When People Just Give Up And Die

by John Leach

The term give-up-itis was coined by medical officers during the Korean War (1950-1953). They described it as a…

Article is continued here: Give-Up-Itis: When People Just Give Up And Die


Scientists Have Been Drilling Into The Ocean Floor For 50 Years And Here's What They've Found So Far

Scientists Have Been Drilling Into The Ocean Floor For 50 Years And Here's What They've Found So Far

by Suzanne O'Connell

It’s stunning but true that we know more about the surface of the moon than about the Earth’s ocean floor. Much of what…

Article is continued here: Scientists Have Been Drilling Into The Ocean Floor For 50 Years And Here's What They've Found So Far


Fat People Do Not Need Your Concerns About Their Health

Fat People Do Not Need Your Concerns About Their Health

by Jamie Khoo

Gravely misinformed ideas about health, beauty and body image still dominate, as derogatory reactions to plus size…

Article is continued here: Fat People Do Not Need Your Concerns About Their Health


How Weaponizing The Body's Immune System Can Deliver A Cure For Cancer

How Weaponizing The Body's Immune System Can Deliver A Cure For Cancer

by Mark Cragg

We’re beginning to treat cancer in a whole new way. Rather than killing cancer cells directly with chemo or…

Article is continued here: How Weaponizing The Body's Immune System Can Deliver A Cure For Cancer


The Trump Prophecy And Other Christian Movements

The Trump Prophecy And Other Christian Movements

by Kalpana Jain

A new film, “Trump Prophecy,” will be shown in some limited theaters on Oct. 2 and 4. The film is an adaptation of a…

Article is continued here: The Trump Prophecy And Other Christian Movements


Astrological Journal for the Week

Written by Pam Younghans

Pam YounghansThis weekly column (updated every Sunday afternoon) is based on planetary influences, and offers perspectives and insights to assist you in making the best use of current energies... Read this week's journal here

It is also highly beneficial to reread the past week's astrological journal as it gives a hindsight view of the events that took place and may provide many "ah-ha" insights. 


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