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Many of us think that there's a right way and a wrong way to do something. Yet, since each person and each moment is unique, the "rightness" of an action or behavior has to be flexible and change according to the person and the situation. Yet, we were taught in school and other situations that there was only one "right" way and that anyone who did not follow this "right" way was wrong... a heathen, an idiot, an outcast, or whatever. 

Yet, when we respect each person's individuality, we see that each person will have different needs and different ways of expressing those needs. The lesson for all of us is to incorporate flexibility in our attitudes. If we are rigid in our attitudes and behaviors, any change we put into place won't be able to "stick" as we remain stuck in our old patterns -- thought and behavior patterns. Are you ready to embrace change?

So our question needs to be as to where in our life we need to be more flexible and willing to participate in the changes that necessarily are part of life. We may judge them as good or bad, but nevertheless, they are taking place. Our only choice is how we deal with them, how we react. Do we react from the rigid mindset of "I'm right and you're wrong" or do we open our mind and our heart to find the good in each situation and help the good expand and thrive. It's our choice as to whether we help heal the problem or add oil to the fire.

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Wishing you enjoyable insightful reading, and of course a wonder-full, joy-full, health-full, and loving week. 

...with Peace, Love, Gratitude, and Joy,
Marie T. Russell,
editor/co-publisher, InnerSelf.com
"New Attitudes...New Possibilities"


NEW ARTICLES OF THE WEEK


Are You Set in Stone?

Author: Marie T. Russell, InnerSelf.com

Saying "I don’t like" sets invisible limits that block new experiences and personal growth. By breaking mental barriers and embracing new opportunities, we can shift our perspective, unlock hidden joys, and create a more fulfilling life. This article challenges rigid thinking…Continue reading

 

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False Belief: I Can't Do This

Author: Lawrence Doochin

False beliefs hold us back, but embracing the power of surrender can lead to deep healing and transformation. By shifting our mindset and facing adversity with resilience, we can uncover our true strength. This article explores how staying present, releasing control, and…Continue reading


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Survivor’s Guilt: Living With the Loss of a Loved One

Author: Maryann Weston

Survivor’s guilt is a painful part of grief after losing a loved one. This emotional journey can leave lingering questions—why did I survive? How do I move forward? This heartfelt reflection explores the complexities of survivor’s guilt, the weight of loss, and the process of…Continue reading

 

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How to Help Your Child in Making Friends and Building Social Skills

Author: Beth McDaniel, InnerSelf.com

Making friends isn’t always easy for kids, but with the right guidance, they can develop the social skills they need to connect with others. Learn how to support your child’s confidence and friendships through encouragement and simple strategies that make a lasting impact...Continue reading

 

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How Tariffs Will Reshape Trade and Everyday Costs

Author: Alex Jordan, InnerSelf.com

U.S. import tariffs from Canada, Mexico, and China could trigger higher prices, industry disruptions, and global trade retaliation. Consumers and businesses alike should prepare for economic fallout...Continue reading

 

How Post-Keynesian Economics Redefines Money and Growth

Why Economists and Politicians Keep Getting Money Wrong

Author: Robert Jennings, InnerSelf.com

Why do outdated economic theories dominate policy while inequality and crises grow? Post-Keynesian economics and Modern Monetary Theory offer a better way forward...Continue reading

 

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Are Artificial Sweeteners More Dangerous Than Sugar?

Author: Sharad P. Paul, MD

Artificial sweeteners are marketed as healthier alternatives to sugar, but research reveals their hidden dangers. From increasing insulin resistance and metabolic syndrome to accelerating skin aging through glycation, these substitutes can do more harm than good. This article…Continue reading

 

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The Overlooked Superpower of Fiber: Why It Matters More Than Ever

Author: Alex Jordan, InnerSelf.com

Plant fiber plays a crucial role in digestion, heart health, and disease prevention. High fiber foods like legumes, whole grains, and vegetables provide essential nutrients for a healthy gut and balanced metabolism. Discover the benefits of plant fiber and how to incorporate it…Continue reading

 

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Welcome to the Healing Power of Holly and Oak

Author: Stephanie Rose Bird

The healing power of trees is more than folklore—it’s a spiritual connection to nature that shapes identity and emotional resilience. From childhood oaks to sacred holly, Stephanie Rose Bird shares how trees serve as ancestral markers, emotional anchors, and healers across time…Continue reading

 

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How Dating Apps Affect Body Image & Mental Health

Author: Beth McDaniel, InnerSelf.com

Are dating apps changing how we see ourselves? Many users experience a rollercoaster of emotions—from validation to self-doubt—within minutes of swiping. This article uncovers how dating apps affect body image and mental health, revealing why endless swiping can sometimes do…Continue reading

 

How does Trump’s presidency highlight real economic risks today?

How Clinton and Obama Gave Trump His Opening

Author: Robert Jennings, InnerSelf.com

The Powell Memo's influence pushed Democrats toward neoliberalism, leading to compromises under Clinton and Obama. These shifts widened inequality and left a void Trump exploited. This article examines the legacy of the Powell Memo and the real economic risks Democrats face…Continue reading

 

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Why Intense Infatuation Feels Like Love And What to Do About It

Author: Beth McDaniel, InnerSelf.com

Intense infatuation can feel overwhelming, like an all-consuming love, but is it real? Understanding emotional attachment and why we get so caught up in someone can help us differentiate between fleeting passion and true connection. This article unpacks the psychology behind…Continue reading

 



This Week's Astrological Overview

The full moon as seen between the pillars at the Karnak temple in Egypt. Image by Ron Porter from Pixabay.

Astrological Overview and Horoscope: February 10 to 16, 2025

Author: Pam Younghans

This week’s Leo Full Moon shines a light on personal expression, leadership, and emotional intensity. With Uranus at the helm, expect unexpected shifts, awakenings, and breakthroughs. Discover how these astrological transits shape your week and how to navigate the cosmic energy…Continue reading
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Recap:

This week’s InnerSelf Magazine explores the importance of embracing change and cultivating a flexible mindset. Life is constantly evolving, and the ability to adapt allows us to grow, overcome challenges, and experience new perspectives. Whether in relationships, personal growth, or global issues, flexibility and open-mindedness are key to finding balance and creating positive change.

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