InnerSelf Daily Inspiration

September 23, 2026

Give Up Expectations to Feel More Love

Give Up Expectations to Feel More Love

By Jude Bijou

Acceptance doesn't condone a given person or event, it brings peace and love. You're not rolling over and giving up by accepting someone/something. Rather it reframes your understanding so you respect another's view or ways as being as valid as yours.
— Jude Bijou
We all experience everyday annoyances with the people around us. What turns an irksome characteristic, situation, or event into a source of continued frustration?
Joan was a middle-aged athletic woman. She was really frustrated because her partner, Tom, would rather be on his computer than be outside. Every weekend was a battle to get Tom out of the house.
Joan realized that she needed to change how she was thinking and to somehow find a way to give up something she felt was very important – her expectation of having an athletic mate. It was her expectations, our "shoulds" that caused her aggravation and annoyance. Tom should be enthusiastic about playing in the great outdoors.

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Book by this Author: Attitude Reconstruction

Attitude Reconstruction: A Blueprint for Building a Better Life
by Jude Bijou, M.A., M.F.T.

With practical tools and real-life examples, this book can help you stop settling for sadness, anger, and fear, and infuse your life with joy, love, and peace. Jude Bijou's comprehensive blueprint will teach you to: cope with family members' unsolicited advice, cure indecision with your intuition, deal with fear by expressing it physically, create closeness by truly talking and listening, improve your social life, increase staff morale in just five minutes a day, handle sarcasm by visualizing it flying by, carve out more time for yourself by clarifying your priorities, ask for a raise and get it, stop fighting via two easy steps, cure kids' tantrums constructively. You can integrate Attitude Reconstruction into your daily routine, regardless of your spiritual path, cultural background, age, or education.

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Recap

This week’s issue focuses on navigating uncertainty through awareness, emotional insight, and conscious decision-making. With the addition of expanded astrology tools, readers gain both practical and reflective guidance for personal growth and life transitions.

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