The Ongoing Search for Love

The Ongoing Search for Love

The search for love is one all humans, throughout lifetimes, have experienced. I believe, that we have not only lived multiple lives experiencing love as both genders, but we search for those connections in each lifetime. It is our reason for being. We look for love believing we have to alter ourselves in some way in order to attract it, when in fact we need to be loved for who we are.

Love can never be disguised as anything else because we are love at the core of our being. Often, the need to be valued and acknowledged is an emotional wound many of us carry. We can try on other looks, hair color, eye color, make up, clothing, muscles and more, but the inner self remains the same. That is the authentic part of you.

Being comfortable in your own skin is how we open to divine love. If you are not comfortable with who you are then a series of disguises cannot cover up the pain.

The Importance of Loving and Being Loved

When I talk to people on the other side who have passed away, they often tell me their conversation with Creator is not about what they accomplished in life, but rather how much they loved and were loved. This is profound for the millions of people who want to identify with what they have become rather than their true nature.

We share love through our energy. Love is the most powerful vibration uniquely traveling across time and space.

Can't Find Love?

When we feel like we cannot find love we must examine our emotional wounds at their deeper roots. Our parents who loved us and gave us a home, may not have had a full understanding of love themselves. This can leave us looking to fill a void created at a young age.

We must love ourselves first before we alter or change anything in search of love outside of ourselves. Sometimes it is difficult to love ourselves. Between our karma, emotional wounds and our soul journey we can spend much of our time like a squirrel chasing our tails.

Your Mission As A Human Is To Love

Our soul journey is about raising our consciousness while inhabiting the human form. The mission is to love at the deepest level of your being. This means the most important task you have as a human is to love. It means that through love you will raise your consciousness and evolve this human species.

Love is best understood through experience. We love one another as family, friends, partners and neighbors. Hopefully, we receive love from our parents and learn to love from their example. When we feel lonely or believe that there is no love for us in this world we would be wise to remember that the greatest love comes from Creator.

The most important thing any of us can do is love. We should love everyone around the world as much as we love our own family. It is through love we will be liberated as a species.

©2018 by Sonja Grace. All Rights Reserved.
Publisher: Findhorn Press, an imprint of
Inner Traditions Intl.

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Dancing with Raven and Bear: A Book of Earth Medicine and Animal Magic
by Sonja Grace

Dancing with Raven and Bear: A Book of Earth Medicine and Animal Magic by Sonja GraceDrawing on both her Native American (Hopi) heritage and her Norwegian upbringing, renowned mystic and intuitive healer Sonja Grace shares original wisdom tales, received through her heart and soul, to take you on a journey into the magic of Raven and Bear and the healing power of Earth Medicine.

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Sonja GraceSonja Grace is a highly sought after mystic, healer, artist and storyteller with both Norwegian and Native American heritage. As an intuitive healer, she has been counseling an international roster of clients for over thirty years. Sonja's ancestral background is a fascinating blend of Native American Choctaw and Cherokee descent and Norwegian. She has been adopted on the Hopi Reservation, where she is considered a medicine woman. The award-winning author of Spirit Traveler, Become an Earth Angel, and Dancing with Raven and Bear, Sonja has appeared multiple times with George Noory on Beyond Belief and Coast to Coast AM. Visit her website at

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