Meet Your Heart: The Myth of The Fragile Heart

Meet Your Heart: The Myth of The Fragile Heart

At first glance, the title of this book (Unlocking the 7 Secret Powers of the Heart) might seem rather contradictory. Heart and powers? Generally, the word “power” makes us think of energies such as ambition, control, discipline, determination, and stamina. It seems odd, and even somewhat unreasonable, to associate power with love, tenderness, and vulnerability.

When we look within ourselves for sources of power and qualities such as fearlessness and resilience, our heart is not the first or most immediate place that comes to mind. Indeed, the mind--the seat of our mental and logical reasoning--tells us that relying on the heart’s energies might make us weaker, unable to cope, and far too delicate to resist pressures and protect ourselves. We would end up utterly fragile in a violent and unrestrained world and vulnerable to abuse or exploitation.

But is it true? This small book carries a strong message: the heart is your greatest source of power. In fact, when you search for a sense of self-worth, confidence, and determination in your so-called “tough” areas of willpower and ambition, you lose touch with the one resource that could provide you with immense fortitude. All the qualities and strengths we associate with individual power exist in abundance within your heart.

However, renouncing the usual energies of power does not mean you should turn to the other extreme of weakness. Instead, you can tap into a lesser known power resource that always feels “right.” Indirectly, almost all human beings recognize to some extent the power of the heart. Books and films in our popular culture are packed with inspiring stories and mythologies of what people were capable of doing in the name of love and the infinite energies that could motivate men and women when they believed in something with all their heart.

The Core of Your Being

This type of power is literally right under your nose. Though your mind does not trust it, it can confidently and successfully replace the mind as a source of power and, when followed all the way, it proves much more resilient and unshakable. The mind’s main strategy is that in order to feel strong, you should toughen your heart, pick up your spear, shield, and helmet, and go out into battle with the world. It guides you to be cautious, but it guides you in this way only because it knows very little of the heart, its true essence, functions, and capacities.

The heart is where the core or the center of your being--your “innermost”--dwells. When you know your heart, you know your innermost.

When your heart is “closed,” you are out of touch with your core, or you do not allow others to get to know it. Intuitively, we all recognize that; after all, this is the heart’s literal meaning. That’s why when you “get to the heart of the matter,” you have tapped into its central or essential issue. As our innermost, the heart is the deepest place from which we choose and act. It is the center that defines our values and sense of meaning in life.

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Authenticity of the Heart

We admire famous figures for heroically “following their heart,” for acting only according to their deepest calling despite everything they have been told. Clearly, the heart is associated with our authenticity, our capacity to listen to the voice of our true self, just as yet another common phrase advises us to do--to “listen to our heart.” We recognize that the heart is wise. It has its own intelligence, which it speaks in its own language. It is a source of wisdom that connects us directly with what is true in us. For this reason, if there is an internal realm that could serve as the abode of our “soul,” it is without doubt our heart.

Even though our mind clearly has many vital functions, it is in this sense only the heart’s servant. When we appoint the mind master of our being, we become confused, perplexed, and tense. Trying to “use your head,” as many suggest we do when in states of confusion, often leads to a deeper inner turmoil. In the absence of the heart as the one true master of our inner world, the mind loses its balance. You ask it to do things it cannot do.

For example, your mind has no idea what the meaning of your life is. Interestingly, neither has the heart any “idea.” “Knowing” for the heart is not like knowing how to prepare financial reports, or how to compose an argument in a convincing manner--its “knowing” is more like “feeling.” It feels what really matters in life because it is connected to life’s deeper sense. Through this feeling it orients itself in important choices and decisions.

Exercise: Getting to know your heart

For the best results, write down your answers.

Identify a moment or an event in your life in which you felt connected to your heart. Let the memory of that moment or event become alive in you. Immersed in this relived memory, ask yourself:

* Why do I consider this as being connected to the heart?

* What does this connection mean to me?

Now identify a moment or event in your life in which you felt your heart was open. Once again, let the memory of that moment or event become alive in you. Then identify a moment or event in which you felt your heart was closed. Recall that moment or event as intensely as possible.

Immersed in these two reawakened memories, ask yourself:

* What does the heart being open mean to me?

* What does the heart being closed mean to me?

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Article reprinted with permission of the publisher, EarthDancer,
an imprint of Inner Traditions.
English edition ©2018 by Earthdancer. All Rights Reserved.

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Unlocking the 7 Secret Powers of the Heart: A Practical Guide to Living in Trust and Love
by Shai Tubali

Unlocking the 7 Secret Powers of the Heart: A Practical Guide to Living in Trust and Love by Shai TubaliAn invitation to discover and develop your heart powers and tap into heart energy • Features accessible yet profound wisdom about the power of the heart and approaches for tapping into heart energy • Reveals that the heart, often perceived as our most vulnerable and fragile place, is in fact the source of our greatest potential • Supports individual heart-work by offering simple and practical exercises, meditations, and visualizations proven effective through many years of practice.

Click here for more info and/or to order this paperback book (in English). Also available in a Kindle edition.

About the Author

Shai TubaliShai Tubali, chakra expert, spiritual teacher, authority in the field of Kundalini and the subtle body system, lives in Berlin where he runs a school for spiritual development and holds seminars, trainings, satsangs, and retreats. Since 2000 he has worked with people from around the world, accompanying them on their spiritual path. He has written 20 books on spirituality and self-development, including Wake Up, World, a bestseller in Israel, and The Seven Wisdoms of Life, winner of the USA Best Books Award and finalist for the Book of the Year Award. Visit his website at

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