Fighting the
Madness...
with a dose of
kindness
by Beth V.
As a former "outcast" who has
gone on to become anything but an outcast, I have learned some important lessons
about life.
I now want to live my life
to my fullest potential as a human being, and I have found that true fulfillment
comes from the heart, from reaching out to others. None of us are the center of
the universe, but a magnificent part of it. Life is hard and it hurts some
times, but life is good, too!
It’s everybody’s business
what is happening "out there". People are often shocked when crime hits their
community. None of us is immune from tragedy, immune from danger, immune from
life. Fact is, we’re all human. Our actions may speak otherwise, but there’s no
denying we’re more than just a body with parts.
Hate and ignorance will
never be solved by more hate and ignorance. Tolerance and respect need to be
taught early in life and incorporated into home life, as well as part of school
training. Actions speak louder than words, and if our children hear us say one
thing, but we speak or do otherwise, an important message is sent. An important
message is lost, too.
Much of society’s problems
these days are a result of hate, ignorance, and a narrow-mindedness not to even
consider what someone else may be feeling or going through. It is time TODAY to
stop the cycle of hate!
Stopping the cycle of hate
is everyone’s responsibility. We become more conscious of our own actions. We
don’t sit around complaining about a situation. We take constructive, not
destructive, action. We search for solutions, amid our pain, and in the process,
we can heal and help ourselves and others.
We become brave enough to
confront our own mortality and ask ourselves what is truly important, what we
really hope to accomplish before we die. We not only preach kindness, we
practice it. We embrace life, and all it encompasses. We look at our
differences, and stand proud. We put our fears aside, and reach out to help
someone who is hurting. We don’t close our eyes to the realities that are
staring at us. We look for ways to be helpful. We look for ways to make a
positive difference.
They say you should love
your mate or your child with "unconditional love". But we all know this doesn’t
always happen. We need to respect our differences, and really listen to what the
other person is saying. We really wouldn’t want replicas of ourselves all over.
The challenge of life, is living in a world with many different people,
different traditions, different tastes, and different feelings.
It eventually comes down to
respect. If one truly respects themselves, then the thought of harming another
becomes absurd and self-defeating. That doesn’t mean we excuse inappropriate
behavior – with free will comes choices and consequences. We can’t control
anyone’s actions except our own. But we can look for ways to turn a bad
situation into one of those life’s lessons that eventually make us all stronger
on the inside.
Nothing is gained by
responding to hate or prejudice with more hate or prejudice.
Period.
It definitely gives you
something to think about. In America, the "home of the free and the home of the
brave", we should start being brave enough to take a stand and look for
solutions that are not just temporary.
However, what would happen
if we all practiced some decent human kindness towards each other? Sounds very
simple, yes? Never happen? Maybe not. But consider this. Everyone has a human
need to feel understood, to be loved, to be accepted.
The person you laughed at
today may take their pain out on someone else. That’s a lot of responsibility,
huh? Did you make crude remarks to that "fatso"? Did you make fun of the kid who
can’t walk or talk right?
FOR EVERY ACTION, THERE IS
A REACTION. An ‘eye for an eye’. Fight fire with fire. Respond to cruelty with
cruelty. Hate with such passion you even scare yourself. Everyone
loses.
A successful person isn’t
one who has the best job or nicest home. Success comes from the inside. It comes
from living. To be successful means to live in a world where both good and bad
exist, and still strive to become the best we can, despite what is happening all
around us.
Winners don’t give up ever.
They may try different strategies, but they always try. It involves a lot of
faith. It involves a lot of compassion. It involves thinking with our own minds,
and not simply going along with the majority way of thinking out of fear of
ridicule. Fear holds us back; truth sets us free. It takes
maturity.
And, finally, as we enter a
new year, what are you going to do to make this world a better
place?
The world has been changed
by "small" people with big hearts, big dreams. Never underestimate the power you
have to make a difference.
Recommended book:
One Can Make
a Difference: Original stories by the Dali Lama, Paul McCartney, Willie
Nelson, Dennis Kucinch, Russel Simmons, Bridgitte Bardot... and Other Extraordinary Individuals
by Ingrid Newkirk with Jane Ratcliffe
Wisdom, stories, and insight of more than 50 activists and
world-changers.
Through fascinating stories and advice, this book offers a roadmap for
those of us seeking to better the world, and also provides a boost of
inspiration for seasoned activists and other quiet agents of change.
For More Info or to Order This Book.
About The
Author
Beth V's writings reflect her love of
life, of helping people, and of sharing information that others can benefit
from. She has dedicated her life to helping others. Beth proposed a Healing Day
to all state governors for August 28, 1999 just before school started to get
communities together and talking. Colorado was one of the states who proclaimed
a Healing Day.
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