Biological Family Lessons
by
John Payne
Q:
What is to be learned from our biological family?
A:
It is important for you to know that, although we speak of inherited
thoughts and emotions, you are not constrained by them unwillingly. The family
blueprint that you inherited was chosen by you because it provided you with
opportunities to develop in the areas you had previously selected. Perhaps you
wanted to develop the art of forgiveness, understanding, compassion,
determination, courage, or any number of soul qualities.
Not all of your feelings actually
originate with you. Many of you who are reading this material are the children
of those who have experienced wars, and as with all wars, there is trauma. These
traumas have become a part of your emotional make-up and have also dictated the
way in which your own parents were able to do their parenting.
As you step back and look at your
family in the light of this information, you can clearly see how thoughts and
feelings are passed down through a family. It is those very thoughts and
feelings which 'one didn't talk about' that cause most emotional entanglements.
These 'traumas' awaken a child to the pain of the parent.
As it comes into the world a child
seeks harmony. It is then the natural tendency of the child to alleviate some of
the parent's pain by voluntarily carrying the emotional burden within its own
body. It does so out of love for the parent.
Emotion is healed at the point
when you can honor your parents for what they have delivered to you, for they
truly have been in service to you, as you have been in service to them. All that
they are became a part of you, and it has been your part in the family karma to
evolve those aspects.
When you understand that
everything was pre-planned and by choice, you can then honor the gift that your
parents have given you. At this point, you are released to the true essence of
your soul. As you release your parents with love and honor, your soul will have
more and more influence upon you, and your life will be filled with
joy.
If you disown your parents, you
deny the choices you made prior to this lifetime. And you deny the essence of
who you are, for you are, in part, their creation. You hold within you their
characteristics, thoughts, ideas, and beliefs.
You are dominated by them only if
you believe that you are -- for you are here to evolve the family. In doing so,
you evolve the family of humanity, for as one person releases all that is
restrictive, the planet is changed forever.
This article was excerpted from the book:
 Omni Reveals The Four
Principles of Creation
by John L. Payne.
Reprinted with permission of
the publisher, Findhorn Press, Tallahassee, FL 32317-3939. ©2001. http://www.findhornpress.com.
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John Payne is an internationally known trance channeler based in Europe. He
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