by Stuart Wilde.
Q: In your tape series "Loving Relationships" you explain how females have a natural
spiritual balance. You also mention that when women figure that out and stop
trying to compete with male energies, they will begin to know their power. Do
you have any thoughts...
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by John Holland.
A way of preventing worry is to stop being such a
perfectionist. You don't have to do everything flawlessly. It's mainly in the
mind that you worry about doing everything just right. I've learned to replace perfectionism with permission to be human...
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by James
Dillehay.
Vanity means pride or self-worship,
which is different from self-love. In the effervescence of gaining achievement,
it is easy to become enamored with oneself. Feeling good about yourself is healthy.
When self-love turns to self-worship...
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by Alan Cohen.
Perhaps early in life you adopted a thought about yourself that
defined you as small, ugly, incapable, or unlovable. Most of us did. And perhaps
you went on to live as if that identity was true. And perhaps, like many, you...
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by Paul Pearsall, Ph.D.

Research shows
that you are more likely to die from a heart attack or stroke between 9
A.M. and 11 A.M. on Monday morning than any other time of the week. Of
course, it's not Monday that kills us but the meaning we attach to this
artificial walling off of the time of our life. Wolves and robins don't know it's Monday. They don't take
weekends off and divide their time into quality and not-quality time...
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by Dr. John F. Demartini.
Whatever you see in other
individuals, you have inside yourself. I call this "the reflection principle": If you can recognize it in someone
else, it's inside of you. If you think Einstein was a genius,
know that you have genius in you, too. You may not have the same form of genius as he did, but your
genius is there...
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by Richard Carlson, Ph.D.

People have an innate capacity for happiness. When we are happy, we are more competent, productive, and creative. Without
the internal distractions of anger, depression, frustration, and
especially worry, our relationships flourish, stress diminished, new
doors opened, and...
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by Phil Cousineau.

According to H. A. Harris, the ancient Olympic Games were "an
integrated preparation for a life of quality." "Players fifty years ago wanted to win just as much as players
today," writes legendary basketball coach John Wooden. "The
desire then and now is the same... In classical times, the
courageous struggle for a noble cause was considered success in itself.
Sadly, that ideal has been forgotten. But it is well worth remembering."
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by William R. Yoder Ph.D., D.C.
Any approach that makes peace and happiness dependent on a particular
outcome or circumstances is implicitly saying that you are
not enough just as you are — that to experience a truly happy and
successful life, you must "achieve" and "earn" and "attain" and
"acquire" (fame, power, wealth, accomplishments, etc.).
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by Dawn Groves.

Some lucky folks have only one aspiration weighing on their
minds, making it easy to choose a goal. Others can't seem to focus on
anything specific. They're either overwhelmed with possibilities or
they're indecisive and nothing stands out. In either case, there are
many ways to get around it.
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by Dawn Groves
Modern life can be deeply stressful and confusing because of its complexity. Like a maze with too many directions, life fosters anxiety because it is difficult to know which way to go. This chapter can help you navigate the labyrinth by embracing two big "G" words: Goals and God.
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by Tom Butler-Bowdon
We desire success almost as much as we need to breathe. From the moment we are born we want to do more, get more, be more. Success can be described as the courage to let out the potent dreams and potentialities already in us, simply to give them air. Most people don't do this because it seems dangerous. Yet those who have gone this way do see it simply as the normal path of life.
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