Dining & Living with
Passion
by Alan Cohen
 "Excuse me sir, we are going to need
this spot", a deep voice awakened me from my sunset reverie. I looked up,
brushed the sand from my cheek, and saw a young man in black tuxedo trousers and
a short white waiter's jacket, his head crowned by the palm tree swaying behind
him. I picked up my towel, moved ten yards to the left, and watched him and an
assistant set up a dining table on the grassy hill. They prepared the table with
fine white linen and cutlery as if it was overlooking not the beach, but the New
York skyline.
"Is there some kind of party
happening?" I asked.
"It's a wedding anniversary."
"How many people are you preparing
for?"
"Two."
"Two?"
"Yes, it's the couple's twenty-fifth
anniversary. The husband is surprising his wife with a private catered dinner
overlooking the beach."
In just a few hours, on a verdant knoll
overlooking Wailea Beach in Maui, a happy woman would have the surprise of her
life. I imagined the couple strolling along casually when the husband says,
"Why don't we sit here, honey?" As she sits, perplexed, a gourmet
restaurant crew emerges from the behind the bushes and serves them a meal fit
for a king and his queen, before one of the most spectacular backdrops on the
planet.
Let's hear it for romance, folks.
Passion - The Juice of
Life
Passion is a very holy thing. You can lose
many material things, but if you lose your passion, you're a goner. It is
the very juice of life, the electricity that sparks all human growth,
expression, and achievement. Passion is the hand of God reaching into humanity
to elevate it to divinity.
The film Sirens makes the statement
that God is knowable through the appreciation of beauty and wonder right here on
earth. Based on a true story, an uptight Anglican minister and his even stuffier
wife are dispatched to mend the evil ways of an Australian painter who has
attained notoriety for drawing nudes. When the couple arrives at the painter's
compound, they find that he has surrounded himself with all manner of color and
delight, including nude Elle McPherson (why not have it all?). During their
stay, the priest and his wife undergo a striking transformation – they begin
to appreciate the earth as an expression of Spirit. Instead of convincing the
painter that he is a sinner, they open up to a new discovery of divinity. While
they intended to shut his heart down, he set theirs on fire.
Jay Larrin sings a marvelous song, "Don't
Let the Song Go out of Your Life". It reflects some important questions
asked by shaman Angeles Arrien: When did you stop singing? When did you stop
dancing? When did you grow uncomfortable with the sweet territory of silence?
When did you stop being enchanted by stories?
In one way or another, all of us have sold
out on our passion. Perhaps even at an early age, we traded our joy for
approval, acceptance, and the illusion of security. But the only real security
is in living life from the heart, not hiding out in convention.
The good news is that it is never too late
to have a happy childhood. While we can stifle our passion, we can never
extinguish it. At any moment we can take it back and start to live as if our
life depends on it. Then we become a master painter, all of life our palette.
Romancing Life with Passion
In the Los Angeles Airport, I saw a young
man propose to his girlfriend by holding up a huge "Will you marry me?"
sign when she met him at the jetway. My friend Karl proposed to his wife (in
front of a video camera) atop a high ropes course. (Symbolic?) Another friend
spelled out his proposal in a flower arrangement on the deck of a cruise ship,
and then invited his beloved to stand on the pier and gaze down at the ship.
Real romance is not confined to sunset
dinners and marriage proposals. True romance is a quality of aliveness that we
bring to everything we do. We can bring passion to our career (indeed it is a
coffin if we do not), to our home, and to our spiritual life. If your spiritual
path is not loaded with passion, you cannot truly call it spiritual. The word
"enthusiasm" comes from the Greek, "en Theos" – in God.
This means that whenever you are enthusiastic, you are in God. Therefore the
most powerful way to bring God to life is to do what you are enthusiastic about.
Let's have a passion revolution. Random
acts of kindness have gotten a lot of press over the last few years. Now let's
go for the gusto and get on with random acts of passion. Why settle for kindness
when you can be a twenty-four hour lover?
Make a list of the ten most outrageous
things you could do for yourself and your loved ones. Then get on with living
your visions. Before long your entire life will be set at a table with an
unexcelled view.
Book written by
this author:
Rising in Love: Opening Your Heart in All Your Relationships
by
Alan Cohen.
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 About The Author
Alan
Cohen is the author of numerous popular inspirational books, including the
award-winning A
Deep Breath of Life. To request a free catalog of Alan's books,
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