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Soulmate Attraction for the Rest of Us

Cassendre Xavier, author of the article: Soulmate Attraction for the Rest of Us

by Cassendre Xavier.

Don't give in to what everyone else says they want in a relationship. You are unique in your wants and desires. Taking the time to find out what you really want in a relationship will more quickly draw your ideal mate to you, and in the best way...

Can Love Make You Whole?

Julie Tallard Johnson

Unfortunately, many of us get lost on our way to find wholeness and happiness — we get lost in search of the perfect Other instead of seeking our whole and true self. When you depend on a romantic relationship to make you feel okay or whole, you can get into trouble...

Truth in Dating

Susan M. Campbell, Ph.D.

by Susan M. Campbell, Ph.D.

Truth in Dating is about using honesty as a "practice." A practice is a discipline that you take on intentionally in order to expand your awareness and enhance your capacity to experience life to the fullest. Telling the truth is not easy. Yet when you do allow yourself to be real and spontaneous, you're more radiant, alive, and attractive.

First Love

Marcia Millman

The story of First Love revolves around two basic themes: separating from our parents and establishing our own identity. These challenges are never totally resolved, and they affect all our love choices, but our first experience of romantic love is especially tied to our need to separate from our parents.

Attraction or Lasting Love?

Bonnie Eaker Weil, Ph.D. Everything goes smoothly until about the third date, when you begin to notice negative traits. What initially attracted you begins to repel you. Many people break up because they think their partner should only display positive character traits...

Challenges to a Lasting Relationship

Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil

by Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil.

People who are married or in committed relationships are healthier, wealthier, and happier. So why do more than 60 percent of marriages end in divorce? And why are fewer people getting married today than ever before? The main reason is simple. It's easy to "fall" in love, but very few people know how to stay in love.

Being A Conscious Single

Joel Rachelson, Ph.D.Unfortunately, being single today is not easy. One, it is difficult, for a number of reasons, to be at peace with being single. Two, it is very difficult to meet other singles, in most any environment much less a healthy environment or process. This search for other singles is made more difficult when trying to find others who are conscious as well.

Deception Signals

Secrets of Sexual Body Language by Martin Lloyd-Elliott.

People often ask psychologists if they can read what people are thinking just by observing their body language and, in particular, whether they can tell if someone is lying. The inner conflict that takes place when we lie prompts a series of subtle but perceivable twitches, micro gestures, and facial movements that flash across the face in under a second. We notice these gestures, though we are often not consciously aware...

Emotions in Relationships

Bruce D. Schneider, Ph.D.

by Bruce D. Schneider, Ph.D.

You may be attracted to someone when you first meet but it may be on a physical level mostly. When the excitement of that original feeling fades, you may feel something is wrong with the relationship. In actuality, you only misunderstood the meaning of relationships.

Honeymoon First!

by Osho.

Osho (Bagwhan Rajneesh)My suggestion is that marriage should happen after the honeymoon, never before it. As far as I know, ninety-nine percent of marriages are finished by the time the honeymoon is finished. But then you are caught, then you have no way to escape.

Is Your Mate Lying?

Sally Caldwell, Ph.D.

by Sally Caldwell.

A Romantic Liar isn't the man who tells a little white lie now and then to keep your spirits up or fails to tell you the whole truth because he wants to spare your feelings. Some Romantic Liars specialize in concealing the fact that they're married, while others...

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