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by Julie Tallard Johnson. In our culture we are often taught to repress our natural pleasure states. When basic pleasures are denied, such as your healthy sexuality, emotional expression, and sensual curiosity, you may find yourself choosing substitute 'pleasures' such as drugs, drinking, video games, television, and overeating. You may also resort to negative behaviors including avoiding responsibility, blaming others for your troubles, and sexually acting out. |
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by Dr. Kenneth R. Stubbs,
Ph.D. A New Sexual Paradigm . Western sexology says that you are a physical body and orgasm is an operational definition that can be measured.
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by Martin Lloyd-Elliott. What and who we find attractive is highly fluid -- we are all friends with at least one person whom we did not like when we first met them. In the same way that first impressions about people can be completely wrong, our feelings of attraction are sometimes unreliable. |
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by Wendy Maltz. Though many of us desire meaningful, intimate connection with a lover, most of the sexual images we are exposed to condition us to be aroused to sex without love. |
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Sexual energy is instrumental to the Ageless Body. It is by virtue of the hormones and their master glands connected to sexual function that the body stays in a perpetual state of "juicy" youth.- InnerSelf Magazine |
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Sex Talk: Soul-Mate Connection by Morgana as channeled by Paul Norris McClain. Many beings are yearning for relationships and most of those that are in relationships on earth are quite unsatisfied. It is a reflection of the imbalance of the earth. Now the time has come for the balance of power to shift. It has already begun, and it shall continue to prosper until the balance of power lies predominantly in the hands of the feminine aspect. This does not mean that it will necessarily be only women who guide the destiny of this world, but rather, that which is the feminine aspect shall come to guide this world. Those who are in touch, from dwelling in stillness, with the feminine principle - the principle of wisdom, intuition, and clarity - will come to create a new way of being for all. |
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Sex Talk: Speak To Me Of Love -- Not Bills by Sherry Lehman, M.A. Foreplay is a 24 hour a day affair for most women, in that it is everything that happens between partners during the day. This is often difficult for a man to understand. For a woman, foreplay begins when the couple awakens in the morning. From that moment on, everything her partner says and everything her partner does affects how she will feel sexually throughout the day. It is absolutely true that the majority of women need romance. Every survey on record supports these findings. According to Ann Landers' survey of 90,000 women, 72% prefer to be held closely and treated tenderly rather than have actual intercourse. "If you read poetry to me or take a walk with me, holding hands, I may have oral sex with you," many women say. But, as one male asked, "What does poetry have to do with oral sex?" |
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by Christopher S. Hyatt, Ph.D. The Tantric act is a giving and a receiving. There is no taking. When giving and receiving reach their highest level of intensity then No-One is left. There is simply Love. |
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by Margot Anand. These seven Tantric keys can open us up to our essential selves and unleash in us that abundant, joyous energy -- Every Day Ecstasy -- that allows us to be all that we can be as human beings with our partners and our children and in our work, our community, and the world. |
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Sex Talk: Masturbation: A Personal Story by Betty Dodson. My first post-marital relationship was a sexual turning point. Blake was an exciting man. At the age of forty-two, with enough money to retire, he'd wrenched himself away from his workaholic ways as a professor and publisher to seek pleasure and peace of mind. Soon after his divorce, he quit therapy, came off the addictive pills prescribed by his doctor, and stopped drinking his ritual martinis before dinner. At the time we met, I'd been off alcohol for three years, so we were both completely drug free. We started mainlining sex. I intended to explore sex passionately and in depth without the interference of church or state. |
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by Marc Bonnard, M.D. In order to be able to make an informed decision on whether or not Viagra is the way you want to treat your erectile dysfunction, you need to have a full understanding of what Viagra -- officially known as sildenafil -- is, and of how it works. It may surprise you to learn that the medication wasn't even originally intended to treat erectile dysfunction. |
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by Zoe Ann Nicholson. When a woman and man join, the coming together of bodies is the least of the meetings taking place. While the five senses are engaging in intense sensations, the minds of the two people are merging with all of their desires, aversions and thoughts. More important and more binding, the souls of the individuals are uniting, bringing together all of their hopes, dreams, sorrows; past, present and future. |
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