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Beliefs Are Not Facts
by Rich Rahn
"We
see what we believe
rather than believe what we see.
-- Alan Watts
"If
what you believe is actually true,
you don't need to believe it.
-- Ron Smothermon
What
are beliefs really?
Beliefs
are opinions, assumptions, prejudices, judgments, ideas,
and attitudes through which everything you experience in
life is filtered.
They're
the psychological tools we use to interface with the
world; that limited warehouse of stored knowledge we use
to analyze, comprehend, categorize and interpret any
given situation or event. They are the lenses through
which we see the world.
Most
beliefs are inherited
Many of
your beliefs were probably inherited from your parents,
grandparents, teachers, bosses, spouses -- whomever. And
you've deduced a bunch of them from books, the media,
magazines, movies -- whatever.
Your
beliefs are based on information that was available when
you formed them. Some of your beliefs are nearly as old
as you. And beliefs you inherited from your parents were
probably inherited from their parents, who in turn
inherited them their parents and so on. There's no
telling how old some of your beliefs are -- beliefs as
old as the information they were based on. (We're not
talking about tradition here, we are talking about
beliefs -- we need tradition in our lives.)
Beliefs
label your world
Beliefs
dictate our experience whether we realize it or not. We
automatically notice things we're expecting to see,
because we're looking for them. In this way, the world
largely conforms to our beliefs about it. The outer
world is a reflection of our inner world. If you
believe, for instance, that people are inherently bad,
then you'll pay more attention to people doing bad
things.
As you
observe life, reality becomes one way -- your way. Your
observations form a loop and reinforce your beliefs
about the world. You'll look at the world and say,
"yup, just like I thought!" Beliefs keep you
in agreement with yourself.
Maintaining
your beliefs feels safe mostly because they're familiar
to you. They may feel safe, but in reality beliefs
can be dangerous. On the pretense of helping you, they
may be severely limiting. Though beliefs are supposed to
define your world, they can often confine your world.
They narrowly shape what and how you experience life.
Sticking stubbornly to your beliefs is not a virtue if
they're harming you. It's like driving your car with the
brakes on.
You
are responsible for your beliefs
Every
once in a while you need a belief housecleaning. You
need to pull them out, dust them off and take a cold
hard look at them. Ask yourself: "Are my beliefs
still working for me? Are they helping me or hurting
me?" Common sense dictates we should evaluate our
beliefs based on how they affect us and those around us.
Do you
really want your mind possessed by static beliefs based
on out-of-date or false information? Beliefs that limit
your thinking and keep you from expanding your
understanding of the ever-changing world around you?
Beliefs that keep you from true fulfillment and personal
development?
The
world is constantly changing. It's a fact. However, to
move forward - to evolve - you have to realize that
beliefs are not facts. Your beliefs don't even
necessarily reflect the truth. In fact, most of the time
they don't. You may know what you believe, but believing
is not the same as knowing.
But know
this: Beliefs are not facts. Beliefs are just beliefs.
This article was excerpted with permission from the book
Evolve
Yourself, by Rich Rahn, published by Duh! Books, Bloomfield Hills, MI. duhbooks@yahoo.com
Info/Order this book.
About The
Author
Rich
Rahn's personal search for meaning has taken him to Spain, Florida, Cape
Hatteras, California, a thousand miles off the coast of Mexico on a tuna
boat, through hundreds of books, and eventually home to Michigan.
But his real journey was his inner search. In his book Evolve
Yourself, Rich introduces the reader to what he's discovered
about life the the pursuit of happiness.
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